When I started going on dates after my unhealthy relationships, I met the same people. I kept wondering… It's either something wrong with me or something wrong with them.
The question to you. How much time would you spend going on dates if you knew that you would meet people with the same patterns from your past?
I realized everything was circling around a few scenarios.
For me, most of the times, I had "rescue" feelings towards men (help them with business, their life situations, etc.), as a consequence, I was attracting victim men. Mummy's boys, drug addicts, etc...
When I was acting more as a "kid", I was inevitably attracting sugar daddies. No passion in the relationship. The rescue feeling were now upside down. I was getting rescued.
I was in a victim stage.
Even though I didn't want to, I was getting into those types again and again…
I had to reconsider all, sit down and prepare my action plan.